ME - SHE TALK FAILS ( once again )

ME - SHE TALK FAILS


LOCATION : CLASSIFIED

DURATION : 45 MINS

SUBJECT : DIPLOMATIC ISSUES .. !!


[ NO JOINT STATEMENT DICTATED TO MEDIA ]

REPORTED BY SOURCES ...

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Broke up with my friend 6 months ago due to serious misunderstandings ...

now again we got to be in same unit in postings with hard face off...

somehow we managed for 5 weeeks in posting by avoiding each others gaze,

irritating each other by all means . If we wanna ask anything we just use a

mediator in unit , if i wanna scold her i used to scold indirectly my kid sis in

unit [ later my kid sis ll spit back me in 3 languages ;) never mind it ]

while taking cases i wont be near n vice versa ... I wont used to speak with other

unit mates or do anything in unit ( mutually all the 4 in unit doesnt go well with

me n i do the same ) ..

Initially she was thinking she got good control over unit n was

very amused to ve a incredible support from others in unit except me ...

At first it was all going her way like she would speak to prof regarding what

case to take , what to do in unit , arranging teaching annexe etc etc .. but with

weeks passed she was getting pissed that she got to do everything in unit.The

GREATEST DIFF SHE DIDNT UNDERSTAND IS SURGERY IS NOT LIKE

MEDICINE DEPARTMENT , here in surgery noone teaches seriously or

clinically everything is just book version so v get bored easily ---

on the other hand i knew this already n was spending time leisurely without

any tension of shifting , taking , or presenting case .. so now she started to

grumble that i'm not doing anything i n unit this n that , but no one wanted to

raise the issue with me n n0 one can blame me , bcos they took the responsibility.

so she setup the meeting with me .....

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HIGHLIGHTS IN THE MEET -

- she was prepared for the meet already n i knew it in last minute only

but it doesnt makes any diff [ i dont need time to prepare for a speech ;) LOL]

- she started by explaining that she started to speak today in wards bcos

she dont want both us looking like enemies in wards


- usually i would be speaking a lot , but this time i was listening in light

mood bcos that day i was in a happier mood ...

inital few minutes were serious like who s doing wrong this n that ...


- then i started to speak with my own arguements .. then she told i dont want

to fight n all... she told she want to be just CLASSMATES
[ nothing more than that ]






ok then we decided to be diplomatic , like...

how to be from now ... i told we shall speak till in wards when necessary

then go away without any fights, she asked after wards

what s our position ?

i replied u in your way n me in mine ....

- i thought the deal would be impressive but there came a topic whether we can

be friends again ?...

THE HEAT TURNED ON...




- both started to argue furiously , her allegations were too hard

n gave me the impression that i'm the reason for all this ,

she told " u just say v shall break n go , u dont mind anything , u just dont

understand me , u r too immature , etc etc "

- then she also added u havent changed after all this time still u r like

what u were ... so i cant trust u i cant be a friend to what u r now , if we wanna

be friends u got to change [------ ] she told few things to change , then added

so first u change these things then i need some time to think then if possible

v shall be friends !!!!!

WHOOO ah !!!! [ i was glas she completed ]

- then i started my points , i dont want to take it too long so i just told ...

" what u r saying is right!! i'm too immature n i dont think i can change so we

cant be friends its not possible "

" so like u say we shall just be CLASSMATES "

she finally told me she has changed a lot in this 6 months n she s

not like what i think ,she s now too steady n mature ..

I started walking saying " ya. u ve changed a lot " with the mocked smile

she too started walking without understanding my sarcasm as usual ....


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MY ANALYSIS OF THE MEET -



- the meet was nothing but stupidity

- both havent forgotten the past between us ..

- the speech was always going without any direction n i felt a bit amateurish

- i was pretty sure she hasnt changed ..

- i dont think we can be friends again ...

- she remembers everything that can be pointed out as i was wrong

- she imitates my kid sister a lot n wanna show herself as bubbley

by nature , i hate seeing that in her [ have your own identity ]

- she thinks she can disappoint me by doing certain things in unit ,god pls

tell her i'm a not that stero type stupids ...

- then finally i'm not that much angry with her now !!!

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but the meet failed without any diplomatic understandings.

Eventhough she want to be like class mates i still havent made my first move

to recognise or neither she has given up her ego to be as classmates ..

The only thing i did mature is when she told we shall be just classmates

i almost asked " does it include messaging n calling " good lord ! i got my

senses back n rolled back my tongue without asking anything stupid


so the news is THE MEET FAILED .



p.s - just after this i thought even two persons cant come to a same understanding

in a meet , then how the hell we except two nations to settle on a issue with a

meet .. Thats y v are still speaking border isssue after 60 yrs of independence.


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UPDATE -

After i got 3 rd prize in diabetic quiz she called me , for telling

CONGRATS ! so where were we now ??....